I do not know about everyone else, but I get extremely nervous when giving a speech to a crowd. I shift my weight a lot and I constantly fiddle with my many rings or my necklaces, which could be distracting to those who are trying to listen to me. In this chapter we are told ways to gain confidence within our selves when giving a speech and many reasons why someone may be nervous while publicly speaking.
Make sure that you are properly prepared when giving your speech and make sure that you are well informed and knowledgeable about your topic so that you are not only credible, but more confident as well. Be sure to try and know your audience before you speak, so that you can be confident that you are using the correct wording and are ethical. Try to envision yourself succeeding with this speech, that you get through to your audience and you have persuaded them about what you think or you have taught them about different ways to reduce emissions.
There are three main reasons why someone may be scared or nervous when giving a speech. The first reason is making an embarrassing mistake like repeating the same sentence or tripping while walking. It happens to everyone and the best way to avoid these mistakes is to remain calm and take deep breathes. The second reason is because they do not want to be judged whether it is the topic they choose or what they may be wearing or how they speak. No one wants to be judged, so if you are happy and confident with what you say and how you say it or what you wear, then you should have no problems feeling confident within yourself. The final reason is that you do not want to be under scrutiny. It is like the same thing as being judged, be confident within your words and your topic and your anxiety should reduce.
Many people have a problem with public speaking. I've even heard that there are people who would rather die than stand up in front of a crowd and talk! I'm hoping that through our class everyone is becoming more comfortable with speaking, and I do think that being online makes it a bit easier. Standing in front of an audience can be intimidating, but I believe the more you do it, the more you become accustomed to it.
ReplyDeleteConfidence is key! When I prepare for a speech I constantly try to remind myself to stay relaxed, don't rush and to trust myself. A positive mindset can promote a well prepared speech and so much more!
ReplyDeleteI hear you, Caroline. I continue to be nervous when giving a speech but not as much since I've started this class. The way I look at it is it has to be done, and if I make a mistake, its okay so long as I correct my mistakes. Life goes on and new day will come.
ReplyDeleteThis is totally understandable! Speeches can be so nerve-racking and it can be so difficult to have confidence. My biggest issue is stuttering or repeating myself when I get nervous. Great blog on how to combat that :)
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